Tween & Teen Language List “Decoded”

Below is a list of common words, phrases, and emojis used to navigate around content restrictions and coded language so you can stay informed and help protect your kids online.

Coded Language

Seggs – A playful and intentional misspelling of sex, often used to avoid content moderation.

Acc0untants – Used to refer to sex workers or strippers, playing off the word “account” to create a harmless-sounding disguise.

H00k3r – A coded form of “hooker,” using zeros and numbers instead of some letters.

S3x – Replacing letters with numbers (e.g., 3 for E) to bypass filters while referring to sex.

L1zzy – A coded term often used for lesbian or female-to-female attraction, using a number in place of the letter “i.”

Bl0wjob – A variant spelling of “blowjob” that swaps out letters for numbers to disguise the term.

S3v3n – Used to refer to sex, replacing letters with numbers for a safer appearance on restricted platforms.

C0rn/P@rn/H0rn – A disguised reference to porn by swapping out the “o” with a “0” or an “@” or another letter.

B0$$ – A coded term for dominant or submissive sexual roles in BDSM or fetish-related content.

T1ts – A substitution of breasts, replacing the “i” with a “1” to avoid censorship.

Th0t – A censored version of “thot” (an acronym for “that ho over there”), using a zero to mask the original word.

V1rgin – A disguised term for virginity, often used as a stand-in for sexual purity or avoiding the direct topic of sex.

W4nna – Used in place of wanna in expressions like “wanna have sex,” subtly hiding explicit intentions.

Sly – Refers to sexual activity (often used in coded language like “let’s get sly”).

Fap – Refers to masturbation, often used in online discussions to avoid filters or restrictions.

Un4live – A coded term for suicide, replacing letters to bypass censors.

F4m – Used as a stand-in for family or to describe people, often used sarcastically or in an indirect manner.

Z0mb1e – A euphemism for someone who is addicted or numb, often in the context of drugs or substance abuse.

G@y – The word “gay” used in various forms with slight tweaks like g@yy, replacing letters or symbols for playful disguises.

M0nkey – A euphemism used for cannabis or weed, often seen in meme cultures.

F@#ked – A deliberate misspelling of a strong profanity that softens its appearance to content scanners.

Druggz – A variant spelling for “drugs” that substitutes letters to fly under the radar.

B00ze – An alternative spelling for “booze” that may be employed when discussing alcohol in adult contexts.

Visual Symbols

🍑 (Peach) Often used as a stand-in for buttocks or to reference sexual content.

🍆 (Eggplant) A well-known symbol for penis, widely used to represent sexual themes.

🔥 (Fire) Used to signify something is hot or sexy, especially when describing someone attractive or a heated situation.

🍒 (Cherries) Used to signify something is hot or sexy, especially when describing someone attractive or a heated situation.

😈 (Smiling Devil) Suggests mischief or naughty, edgy behavior.

🤤 (Drooling Face) Indicates desire or lust.

👅 (Tongue) Connotes sensuality or explicit actions, sometimes teasing a sexual meaning.

🥵 (Hot Face) Indicates that someone or something is too hot to handle, often sexualized in nature.

💋 (Kiss Mark) A symbol representing kissing or sexual attraction.

💦 (Water Drops) Often used to represent moisture, symbolizing sexual content or arousal.

🌶 (Chili Pepper) Like the eggplant or peach, this is another sexual innuendo symbol used to represent something spicy or seductive.

🐣 (Chick) A symbol that can reference vulnerability or innocence, sometimes used inappropriately to infantilize individuals in a sexualized way.

 🕳️ (Hole) This is used to reference genitals, particularly in memes or jokes involving sexual content.

 🦄 (Unicorn) Often symbolizes fantasy or nontraditional sexualities, sometimes used in reference to the polyamorous or open relationships communities.

💀 (Skull) A symbol for death, dark humor, or used in context to indicate someone is “dead” from embarrassment or shock.

🤡 (Clown Face) Occasionally used to satirize or trivialize explicit behavior, adding a layer of irony.

🔞 (No One Under 18) A direct symbol used to reference age-restricted content, often signaling explicit discussions or actions.

🚫 (No Entry/Prohibited Sign) Sometimes used ironically to flag content that’s “banned” or allude to restricted topics.

⚠️ (Warning Sign) Serves as a caution or to denote that content is pushing boundaries.

💣 (Bomb) Implies explosive, shocking, or “dangerous” content that might be explicit.

🎭 (Performing Arts Mask) Used as a disguise for true intent or content, hinting at hidden or double meanings.

🖤 (Black Heart) Employed to signify darker themes or edgy content that may border on inappropriate.

👀 (Eyes) Used to indicate that something is suspicious or to signal that something interesting is happening, often used in sexual or dramatic contexts.

🐍 (Snake) Used to refer to someone who is a “snake” or untrustworthy, often used in bullying or toxic behavior contexts.

🙈 (See-No-Evil Monkey) Used to represent shame or embarrassment, often in sexual or controversial contexts.

🧠 (Brain) Used in reference to brainwashing, manipulative tactics, or mentally taxing content. It can also be used to reference intelligence in a mocking way.

🧛‍♀️/🧛‍♂️ (Vampire) Often used to reference toxic relationships or emotional exploitation, invoking the imagery of a “blood-sucking” figure.

👑 (Crown) Used to refer to someone as the “king” or “queen”, but it can also be used in toxic ways, such as indicating someone is superior in a manipulative or narcissistic way.

🔒 (Lock) A symbol for restricted access, often used to imply something secret, hidden, or private (could reference exclusive sexual content or private conversations).

Slang Terms

Ate – Used to praise someone who has performed exceptionally well, especially in contexts like fashion or performance.

Algospeak – A term referring to using coded language to evade content moderation algorithms on social media platforms.

Alpha – Describes a dominant, confident individual, often with hyper-masculine traits. 

Bet – Used to confirm plans or agreement or to challenge someone’s claim—essentially shorthand for “okay” or “watch me.”

Brat – Signifies a confident, independent, and hedonistic lifestyle.

Brain rot – Refers to the mental state resulting from excessive consumption of trivial online content. 

Cheugy – Describes someone or something that is out of date or trying too hard to be trendy. ​

Corn – A euphemism for “porn” used to avoid content filters. ​

Delulu – A shorthand for “delusional,” often referring to fans with unrealistic expectations about their idols. ​

Era – Used to denote a significant phase in someone’s life, often influenced by celebrities like Taylor Swift’s “Eras Tour.” ​

Fanum tax – A term implying the obligation to share food with friends.

Flex – Although an older term, it’s seen renewed use to describe showing off one’s accomplishments or possessions in a confident (or sometimes humblebrag) manner.

Fujoing out – Describes someone obsessing over male homosexual relationships, derived from the term “fujoshi.” ​

Gyatt – An exclamation used to express admiration for someone’s physical appearance, particularly curvy body types. ​

Hits Different – Used when something resonates in a uniquely intense or unexpected way compared to usual experiences.

Leg booty – A playful alteration of “LGBTQ,” used to discuss related topics without triggering moderation.

Let them cook – Means allowing someone to continue their actions, anticipating a successful outcome.

Main Character Energy – Describes a person who carries themselves as if they’re the protagonist of their own story, exuding confidence and self-focus.

Mascara – Used as a code word for “sex,” allowing users to discuss the topic without content restrictions. ​ ​

Mood – A versatile term that signals a strong personal feeling or a relatable state, often used to validate an experience.

Rizz – Denotes style, charm, or attractiveness, especially when attracting a romantic interest.

Sewer/Slewer slide – A coded term for “suicide,” enabling discussions on the topic while avoiding algorithmic detection.

Sheesh – An exclamation expressing surprise, disbelief, or admiration, often stretched out for dramatic effect.

Simp – Refers to someone who goes overboard in admiration or subservience to another person, typically in a romantic context.

Skibidi – A nonsensical term popularized by the “Skibidi Toilet” meme series, often used humorously without a fixed meaning. 

Snack – A playful compliment indicating that someone is attractive as if they’re as appealing as a tasty treat.

Sussy – Derived from “suspicious,” this term gained momentum alongside social deduction games and is used to call out sketchy behavior.

The ick – A sudden feeling of repulsion towards a romantic partner due to specific behaviors or traits. ​

Touch grass – A phrase suggesting someone should go outside and engage with the real world, especially after spending excessive time online. ​

Unalive – A term used in place of “kill” or “die” to prevent content suppression.

Resources:

• https://keyhole.co/blog/top-genz-slangs/
• https://www.ubiquitousinfluence.com/post/tiktok-slang 
• https://www.theguardian.com/books/2024/nov/01/brat-wins-collins-dictionary-word-of-the-year-2024 
• https://people.com/all-about-gen-alpha-slang-8733165 

OurPact’s View feature includes a companion tool called Categories, which is automatically enabled when View is used for management. After a screenshot of your child’s device is taken, any images containing concerning language will be flagged.

OurPact’s extensive word list already detects terms related to Sexual Content, Profanity, Violence, and Substance Abuse. Parents can also add custom terms to be flagged. The included list serves as a great starting point for adding your own flagged words to monitor inappropriate content or conversations your child may be engaging in.

Note: The Categories feature does not yet flag images, meaning it cannot detect inappropriate content in emojis or pictures.

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